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Mar 22, 2006 at 06:48:47 DS

A Mother's Cry! A Mother's Cry! My dear child was taken away from me and life has ended for him, but his spirit lives on with God. My whole world has been altered. How can life be so unfair for me, his father, siblings and family. Waking up facing this cruel and evil world has become a difficult thing for me to do and I live each day trying to struggle for the next day. I don't take life for granted any more and every second is a blessing. For those of you who never lost a child before I pray that you never will. No one deserves losing a child. My baby was a true blessing to me and the laughter and his smile… He had a heart of gold and touched many lives. To watch your child lay down lifeless and there is nothing you can do, your mind, body and soul changes instantly. Your body becomes numb, you want it all to be a nightmare, to wake up knowing it was just a bad dream. But when reality starts to settle in, there's no one to call upon but Jesus and you ask many questions Why? Why? Why? We don't get our answer when we want so we begin to get angry with God and ask ourselves “what have I done to cause this to happen?” “If I could have tried to keep him home, close to me, and protect my baby from harm maybe it would not have occurred. It goes on to feeling guilty and to start blaming yourself for not being able to say more to him. I truly miss my baby. I can not imagine being without him in the years to come and the hurt is so intense and over whelming… I just want God to make it better as time moves on. The cowards who took my child away from me? I must forgive them with all my might as God has forgiven us. God said in his word that “vengeance is mine” and I believe in God, and that his word speaks the truth. Some may call me crazy for forgiving them. But it's okay because only God can judge them and me now. My cry out to you is to tell your loved ones how much you love them! Tomorrow is not promised to us! Be steadfast in the Lord for he's the one that will see you through. I look for nothing big in life only to see my baby when this life has passed me by. I pray for the parent's of the cowards because they to will suffer when True justice is served. Lord, forgive them for they know not what they do.

Mar 22, 2006 at 06:50:11 K2

I'd like to start off by saying that it gets greater later. This is a saying that I've always used but I never knew how deep it could be. It was a wake up call and brought to my attention that this is not our home. Heaven is home. To have One pass away exemplified that tomorrow is not promised. And how from the Earth we came and so we shall return. One day we will all be together with him and other loved ones who have come to pass. So indeed it will get greater later. My message to family and friends: Be strong. Remember those words "Don't cry, just ride". Now is the time to make him proud. When Jesus passed the Angels came to Mary and said that he has not died (...he has risen). This ones flesh is no longer here but his spirit lives on through us. At times I feel my strength might fade but knowing that it gets greater later keeps me strong. "I'll love you forever ". See you when I get home:: :: -K2::

Mar 23, 2006 at 08:53:19 Auntie D.

Whatever's Whatever is a beautiful Website. I feel lost for words right now, because I have never lost a child, but my prayers are with the parents who have lost a child. My nephew was killed and I miss him so much, I miss his smile and his voice. It is so hard for me to write this but with the help of God I can do this. Don't worry my sister God will take care of everything and God will wipe all of ours tears away. Word to the Mother!

Mar 24, 2006 at 05:52:58 Taylor

Recently my son's cousin was in a melee of violence (2006). Doctors say he may never walk again. Last year my nephew transitioned to glory (2005). You can not see his legs in the physical and his life was cut down! Both were under the age of 21. I have walked this earth for some time now and I have witnessed years and this season has been very sightful. Our young men are losing there legs because of blindness and ignorance. Somewhere down the road, crutches and imputable oversights burden the masses. You are Kings awaiting crowns and Queens with grace and honor . Young people... Wide is the road that leads to destruction and Narrow is the way. It is all meaningless if you do not believe in a higher Power in order to walk through the streets call "LIFE"..

Mar 24, 2006 at 10:42:17 Savannah

I think that this website is a wonderful idea! Especially, trying to hold the individuals in our lives who have indeed, been taking from us. This madness needs to stop! But I honestly think it will never end. It's been happening for years and this War between the youngsters is going to live longer than us. The only thing we can do is keep our kids away from it as much as possible... But this is a great idea to create this website so people can speak their minds. I hope is all is well and may God continue to bless you and watch over your family!

Mar 24, 2006 at 16:17:53 Bill

Excellent website. Lets all come together and stop the madness. Any little thing that we do as individuals that is positive has the chance to affect many. God bless

Mar 24, 2006 at 21:38:57 Key-Key

I would like to start by saying that this is a very powerful website and I want to commend not only the inventors of “Whatever’s Whatever” but also the people who take the time to contribute to it. As a teenager in today’s world living everyday life is hard. Things have gotten out of control so quickly. Death surrounds us, it’s on TV, in the paper ,at our schools and even worse…. in our own families. I have recently lost a loved one to the madness in the streets. One of my big cousins, he was more than just that he was like the older brother I never had. As a little girl he was my Superman and I hold on to so many great memories of him. To his mother, father, sisters and brothers I wish that there was something I could do to ease the pain I know you feel so deep inside. I wish there was something I could say to stop the tears from falling. I want you all to know that even though we aren’t there with you during this time, you’re not alone! And everyone else who has lost a loved one I pray that God will grant you Peace. To my dear fallen cousin, you’re still Superman to me!

Mar 25, 2006 at 15:00:34 Vanna

HAPPY BIRTHDAY COUSIN! All of your messages are so powerful they are making me cry right now reading them. Auntie and family you know I love all of you and my prayers are with you. As my auntie said to the cowards that took my cousin, I forgive you. Even though it hurts I know that is what the Lord says for us to do. You will get yours in the end; hear me well you will get yours! It may not be from man but God will judge those who do wrong to his children. And believe it or not my cousin was one of his children! Today is his birthday and he would have been 19! That was taken away from him but his spirit still lives on in all of us. So you make think that you have killed him but you haven't! He is still here! I miss you so much, I still cry all the time wishing you were here even when I'm trying to be strong for your mother and encourage her. I am still hurting so bad. My cousin was like a lil brother to me and we used talk everyday or at least he would call me everyday. Even if he didn't say hardly anything the fact was, he called me. I would ask him "Why do you always call me and not say anything?" He would tell me "At least I'm calling you, you can't ever say I don't call." I miss that, and now I have no one to call me and not say anything. I wish you would have came down and moved in like we talked about then, maybe, you would still be here. Or maybe if I kept on you and your brother about coming down here I could have kept you here and your brother. I love you so much I wish I could hug, touch, or give you a big sloppy kiss. Well, Happy Birthday! In my heart you will have many more to come and you will always live on. "On dawgs!"